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by Montessori Family Alliance Staff
We want our children to grow up to know their own worth and be confident. Praise seems the natural path to get there, yet you hear Montessorians say that you should not give general praise. We focus on the word praise when the focus should be on the word general. We all want to know what to say instead of “good job” or “way to go.” Here are twenty statement starters and one guideline to help you. They may not feel comfortable at first, so practice. Say them out loud, practice with your children, with your loved ones, and with friends and co-workers.
First the guideline: Observe what is happening and pause to think about it or even ask questions about it. Here are twenty ways to share your observations that help build confidence:
- I noticed you show your kindness when you…
- You showed so much creativity in…
- I could see the hard work you have put into…
- You really showed curiosity with…
- Your problem-solving skills were on display when you…
- Your perspective on ___ is interesting because…
- You really showed enthusiasm when…
- I noticed how caring you were when you…
- I appreciated your honesty when you…
- I would like your opinion on ___ because I value your opinion.
- You showed such bravery when you…
- Your courage in tackling ___ inspires me.
- You worked so hard doing ___.
- Thank you for your patience with ___.
- You are making a difference by ___.
- I noticed you making others feel included when you ___.
- Your imagination really shines when you…
- Your determination with ___ is remarkable.
- Your ability to forgive really showed when…
- Your positive energy really affected…
